Exploring the Orders of Love through Systemic Constellations
This experiential course invites helping professionals to deepen their understanding of human systems and relationships through the Orders of Love — foundational principles that shape connection, belonging, and balance.
Whether you already work with systemic thinking or are new to it, this programme offers a practical, embodied approach to seeing and experiencing the hidden dynamics that influence families, groups, and organisations. Through systemic constellations, participants will engage directly with patterns, forces, and relational movements that often remain invisible in daily practice.
You’ll explore how personal, systemic, and collective conscience operate to maintain balance, and how recognition, inclusion, and understanding of these forces can bring clarity and resolution to complex relational challenges.


Course: The Orders of Love in PracticeDeveloped by Bert Hellinger, the Orders of Love are natural laws that govern relationships and belonging within human systems. They operate through four primary organising forces:
Belonging – everyone and everything has a place
Place – each member of a system has a proper order
Exchange – giving and receiving must be balanced
Time – past, present, and future influence the present system
In this course, participants work experientially, using systemic constellations to explore how these principles manifest in real-life systems. This approach combines:
Direct experience – sensing movement and dynamics in the body and in the field
Observation of patterns – seeing how relationships, events, and histories influence behaviour
Integration of systemic awareness – applying insights to professional practice in therapy, education, healthcare, and rehabilitation
Whether you are new to systemic thinking or already experienced, this course provides:
Tools to recognise hidden dynamics and relational patterns
Opportunities to develop embodied understanding of the systemic field
Skills to hold complexity with safety, clarity, and compassion
Insight into how systemic forces impact the wellbeing of individuals, families, and groups
Step into a space where theory meets experience, and gain practical skills to bring systemic awareness into your professional practice.
Meet Sara Poss
• Systemic Therapist (Individuals, Couples & Families)
• Parenting Coach
• Family Constellations Facilitator
Sara brings years of experience supporting families and individuals through therapy, parenting coaching, and systemic constellations. Her work combines clinical grounding with warmth, making complex challenges easier to approach with clarity and compassion.Meet Betsy Gibson
• Master Practitioner of Traditional Chinese Medicine
• Systemic Parenting Coach
• Workshop Facilitator
• Special Needs Teacher (50+ years)
With five decades of teaching experience and mastery in Traditional Chinese Medicine, Betsy offers a unique, empathetic lens to family work. She blends systemic coaching, educational expertise, and holistic practice.

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